Editor’s Note: David Hejmanowski is the editor of Sporcle’s miscellaneous section. A father of two, he is a Magistrate and Court Administrator of the Delaware County, Ohio Juvenile Court.
Who doesn’t love kissing a baby? They’re cute, they’re cuddly, they make fun noises and, as long as they’re not spitting up on you, they remind you of the amazing wonder of life.
It’s a presidential election year in the U.S. and so it’s hard to turn on the television or look on the internet without seeing images of presidential candidates on the campaign trail, shaking hands and making speeches. So it was, a few weeks ago, that I set out to make an image quiz of presidential candidates kissing babies.
The search produced the expected results- lots of shots of candidates laughing, smiling and making funny faces and lots of images of sometimes smiling, sometimes crying, sometimes confused babies and toddlers. The quiz was published on February 3rd and I was delighted when a brand new user named Seed2tree made the following comment on the quiz;
It wasn’t clear from the comment who the commenter was or whether he or she was being honest about being the parent of that incredibly cute kid. Derek Pharr, Sporcle’s VP of Products, wondered about it too and so he contacted the user who left the comment. What followed is a story that will make you marvel at the connectivity of the modern world, but more importantly, a story that will touch your heart.
The user turned out to Phillipsburg, New Jersey’s Andrea Mitcheltree the mother of three children, including little Duncan Mitcheltree, who was 15 months old when this photo was taken at Lehigh in 2008. The story of how the picture came to be is somewhat pedestrian, but the story of what happened after it, is remarkable.
Duncan and his folks went to the McCain/Palin rally with little Duncan dressed in an elephant costume (a ‘wee-publican’, as his mother says). The rally was crowded and hot and Duncan overheated, so he was de-pachydermed prior to meeting the Senator and having this picture taken. The photo appeared in some local newspapers and some other media outlets and then sat dormant for four years until it happened to show up on my Sporcle quiz.
In fact, it happened to show up on a Sporcle quiz that was played by a college friend of Mrs. Mitcheltree. That friend recognized the boy as Duncan and emailed a link to the quiz to Mrs. Mitcheltree who created a Sporcle account and left the comment. She also was kind enough to respond to Derek when he emailed her, and that takes us to Duncan’s magnificent story.
You see, not long after Duncan Mitcheltree met Senator John McCain, Duncan faced a battle much greater than McCain had faced against Barack Obama. Too young to vote, too young to read, too young to know what the men and women in the white lab coats were saying or why his parents, Andrea and Eric were so upset, Duncan Mitcheltree- that adorable, cherubic, blond boy in the Sporcle quiz- faced a fight for his life.
Shortly before Christmas in 2009 he just couldn’t shake a fever and sore throat. His mom took him to the doctor hoping that he wouldn’t be sick over Christmas. She later told a local newspaper reporter, “I thought we’d go to the pediatrician and worst case scenario he’d diagnose him with strep throat and start an antibiotic.” Instead, the doctor sent them for an ultrasound and the ultrasound found a mass in Duncan’s abdomen. Two year-old Duncan Mitcheltree had cancer. “They told us to pack a bag and go directly to the hospital,” his mother said. “What do you pack when you think your child is going to die?”
The tumor was the size of a sports bottle and resulted from a form of kidney cancer that frequently strikes children. Surgery successfully removed the tumor and one of Duncan’s kidneys, but his battle wasn’t over yet. Following the surgery Duncan faced months of radiation and chemotherapy. Even then, though, Duncan was on the mend. “Every day after that has been a positive step forward,” his father said.
Since his diagnosis, Duncan has had many heroes in his life, including his parents and his big sister. Indeed, they have worked tirelessly to raise pediatric cancer awareness and to help raise money for other families that find themselves facing an unexpected battle. In particular, the Mitcheltrees cite The Pediatric Cancer Foundation of the Lehigh Valley and its ‘Chemo Circus.’ Twice a month the Foundation gathers clowns, artists, massage therapists (for the parents!) and other volunteers who go into the chemotherapy clinics to make the experience more livable for pediatric cancer patients and their families. The circus is just one of the ways that the Foundation provides support.
We urge you to visit the website of the Foundation at pcflv.org. The Sporcle team has made a donation to the Foundation and you can donate to them through their website using Paypal.
Duncan is now four and a half years old. He is finished with radiation and chemotherapy and the great news is that his form of cancer has a 90% cure rate if it is caught early, removed and appropriately treated. He has a new baby sister and, when he hits five years without any recurrence of his cancer (a date that will come in 2015) his doctors will officially declare him cancer free.
The Republican primary in Pennsylvania isn’t until April 24th. Perhaps this year we’ll get a new picture of Duncan’s baby sister getting a smooch from a candidate, a healthy, happy Duncan at her side.
“Everyone just needs to stop and appreciate everything they have because you never know when your life will be turned upside down.”
– Andrea Mitcheltree